Tongue Kissing Techniques

“Tongue Kissing Techniques”

So you have been in a relationship with your partner for a few weeks and you want to make your kissing more dynamic because you are getting bored with the same closed mouth pecks on the lips that you have been getting from them.  Even when you try to kiss with an open mouth, they quickly break off the kiss.  Instead of getting angry and confronting them, try these tongue kissing techniques to see if they are interested.

Tongue Kissing Techniuqes – The Don’ts Of Tongue Kissing

First, you need to know the “DON’T’s” of tongue kissing.  So, here they are:

  • Don’t be scared of the tongue or of using it.  You will need to start slowly and feel each other out, literally and figuratively, but once you get the rhythm of it, you both will like it.
  • Don’t bite their tongue.  It hurts and it is mean.  They will not want to kiss you again, so be nice.
  • Don’t slobber all over them.  If you have active saliva glands, do not drink water for half an hour to 45 minutes before your date with them, so that your mouth is a little drier than it would be if you had a drink of something.
  • Don’t have gum or candy in your mouth, unless you are trying the Candy technique.  First it is gross to find someone else’s gum in your mouth- ABC gum.  Second, it could choke or accidentally get swallowed by the other person and there goes the romantic atmosphere you have tried to create.  It is not romantic and you will not get another date if you have to do the Heimlich maneuver on your date.
  • Don’t smoke.  Kissing an ashtray is not romantic, it is just gross.
  • Don’t forget to breathe.  Again, calling 9-1-1 and doing CPR on your date is not romantic and will not get you a second date.  Breathe through your nose if you have to, but if you cannot breathe, they probably cannot either.  Break off the kiss, grab a breath or two and start again.

A Fun Tongue Kissing Technique – Candy Anyone?

A fun tongue kissing technique is the candy kiss, in which one kisser has a piece of candy in their mouth and while they are kissing the other person, use their tongue to get the candy into the other person’s mouth.  This may require very little effort from the person starting with the candy, as the other person may decide to use their tongue to take the candy out of their mouth, or it can require a lot of effort, if the other kisser is active with their tongue and attempt to play hockey with the candy.

The Spiderman kiss is another great technique to try, if you both are up for it.  One partner should lay in the other person’s lap.  The person who is sitting leans over and kisses the other person, usually on the bottom lip first, then both lips.  Once the couple gets a rhythm going, it can be very fun, especially if the partners decide to switch places.

Hi there,

My name is John and it was not long ago that I was an emotional wreck, totally falling apart, after one of the worst experiences I’d ever gone through.  An embarrassing date that ended with her saying “Hmmm, I don’t think so”, after I asked her if she wanted to go out again.

My date decided she didn’t want to see me again and I first had no idea why.

I kept playing the whole date from start to finish over in my head but I just couldn’t figure it out.

Maybe I could actually make some sense of it if I’d treated her like crap, if I didn’t pay for dinner, if I didn’t pay for popcorn at the movies but….NOPE, I wasn’t that guy at all.  My mom had taught me early on how to treat women and I stuck to her idea of the perfect date.

I thought everything went well.  She laughed at my jokes, she leaned in close to me at the movies, accidentally brushing my thigh with hers but something seemed to go very wrong when it was time to say Goodnight….

Click here to find out what happened….