“Initiating A Kiss – What You Must Know First”
Imagine that you are on a first date with a guy that you have liked for forever, it seems, and you finally have him all to yourself. It is the end of the date and you are wondering if he will ever try to kiss you, because you hope that after he kisses you, he realizes that you are the girl for him. If you do not want to wait for him to get up the courage to kiss you, you can use the following steps to initiate a kiss with him.
Initiating A Kiss – Part 1
Instead of trying to give him a “Come hither” stare that never works and usually ends up looking like you have an eyelash in your eye, smile at him. Look like you are interested in him, which you are, hopefully, since you are on a date with him. Laugh at his jokes, even if you have heard them before, or think they are lame. He is probably as nervous as you, so cut him some slack and just laugh at the jokes, never at him.
Flirting with him is a great idea, but do not overdo it. Trying to be someone you are not is never a good idea because you may have to keep that persona up, if he likes it. Besides, he asked you out while you were being yourself, not someone else. So, be flirty like yourself, not anyone else. Complimenting him is a great way to make him relax and want to kiss. If he knows you like the way he looks, how he smells, what he talks about, and how smart he is, he is more likely to kiss you because he knows you like him.
Initiating A Kiss – Part 2
If you do not want to mess around and have your signals crossed, you could always take the direct approach and just ask him if he plans to kiss you. Be careful though, because some guys will see this as too aggressive and will not want to go out with you again. This is a better idea for couples who have been together for a few months and are pretty comfortable with each other. If you are going on a first date with a guy, do not do this.
It would be just as bad a lady who speed dates and her first question is “Can we get married because I want kids?” Not only would she scare away every guy in the place, but she would never get the result she wants, and neither will you if you do not know him well.
Initiating A Kiss – Part 3
The easiest way to initiate a kiss is to touch him. Touch his shoulder and move into him. Make him hold you by being close to him. Hold his hand and wrap his arm around you. Rest your hand on his shoulder and wrap your arm around his waist.
Look at him and smile when he talks to you. If you are brave enough, you can touch his cheek and guide his lips to yours. That takes courage, unless you are in a relationship with him and have done that before.